I have been saddled with happilly married to my present wife for 31 years. She is a 'floating' teacher at the local infants school. Her hobbies are Equine based [and have been for years], my hobby [when I get chance] is Scuba Diving; I am a Normoxic Trimix Instructor and regularly teach in Egypt. So on a 'free time' basis our paths rarely cross. 30 seconds after we were married she was clinically diagnosed as having terminal Domophobia [ a pathological fear of all things domestic ], the only cure being 'not to do it'. I cook, she eats it. We clean when needed. We rarely argue. We sometimes have meaningful discussions; last one was on the Fibonacci sequence, Mobius loops and the use of imaginary numbers....well, I say discussion! I was talking about them and she was wittering on about her Horse coughing. Then she logged onto BookFace or some such thing. She has no interest in my job and I have even less interest in hers... :coat
